My big book of Gyaan Chapter-2 Love

Finding love is a tricky business. Love has different meanings for different people. It is funny how sometimes two people in a single relationship have conflicting definitions for the same concept. Perhaps that difference is what holds them together,perhaps not...I really don't know.

For me,love is about finding that perfect (for me),big love that I can't live without. For Cuttu, it is about finding the guy who understands and accepts her as she is and basically takes care of her (in a very feminist kind of way...lol). For Capricious, it is all about finding that person she can love and respect above all.

I am of the opinion that it is not very difficult to actually find someone you can love more than life itself. My point is, once you have found your great,big,love,then what? How do you go abouthandling it...not letting it go...holding on to it for the traditional 'till death do us apart'...not take a wrong step here and there... etcetera etcetera...???

As my long-lost,recenty re-found(?) friend Wicca says Love,like Life,Marriage and Death is grossly overrated (Well,I met her in one of my rebellious teenager days back in Pune,when I hung out with all the wrong people[read too old and too rich for their own good].I like to think of her as my older,nastier alter-ego. She is new to blogging and I have recieved intimation that her next post is supposed to my character assassination,so please...feel free to read and comment). I,frankly,don't understand the word 'over-rated'. How can a decision which can make or break your whole future,your whole life be over-rated? Again,I have absolutely no idea...

Trying to understand love seems to me like being in nursery and trying to pronounce C-A-T all over again. I feel absolutely clueless. You try to spell it out, but you don't really understand why the letter is pronounced as "C" and it has a "ka" sound in CAT. And in the end you just give up trying to understand why it is spelt that way and just accept that that is the correct pronunciation.  Likewise, in love, somewhere or the other,you just need to give up trying to figure it all out and just decide that you either love the other person or you don't. That seems like a tough enough decision.