My big book of Gyaan Chapter-1

The opposite of love is not hate,it is indifference. As long as you hate someone,it means that you still care. But once that changes into indifference and all the leftover passion evaporates,it pretty much is over..whether it be a relationship,or friendship or whatever...

When I love someone,I make it a point to show that I care, by taking an interest in that person's life. And that is something I would expect in return too. My attitude towards a person generally depends upon how he or she reacts to me,or generally behaves with me. So if you feel I'm being indifferent to you,you know where to look...

I admit that I'm not a good judge of people/character. I have made some pretty bad judgements in the past and I guess it is safe to assume that I will do so in the future too. Therefore I find it a bit difficult to just come out and trust people. Who knows,someone I love and trust might not be the most trustworthy person in the world. He /she could be a cheater or liar or kleptomaniac for all I know. But then again ,if that person could give me just one good reason to trust him/her,I find it easier to forget all that.

Next time you care about a person just don't refrain from telling that person that...It could mean the world to him/her...I know that for a fact...I feel bad when someone I care about doesn't reciprocate my feelings,or when he/she doesn't tell me that he/she cares(even after I have made it very clear)...So I guess it should be the same for everyone...No one has sixth sense right,you have to say it for the other person to understand. And sometimes,just knowing that the other person loves you is not enough,you so have to hear it...and when that person doesn't tell you that,it feels awful...It makes me insecure and in doubt of myself.But I would also say that if you don't feel the same,don't refrain from telling that either,because that ,would be just like cheating that person. It is always better to know the truth,however ugly it is,don't you agree?